Can I click on my own secret links? Because it is possible.
What I want to know is if it is a rule violation

You should only have one account, and therefore, only one secret link.

Yes, you can click your own link once per day.

i cant click my own link for some reason

you can't get to it directly like before; I just type in my link

or you can just click someone else's link, then on the address bar put your id wheretheir's is

or you could just go to the members page and copy and paste it from there

never thought of that...