not me. i press update and it deletes them all. but this is only every once in a while so it doesnt bother me much. the big problem is that #2 doesnt work no matter who i put in there. same goes for most people it seems.

I seem to have no problem at all

Hmm now that you have mention that I have the same prob 1 works but two won't show not have tried 3 and 4 yet 

Why is it that I cannot get it to happen to me?

Are you selecting checkboxes during this?

I don't for if I do my allies will be deleted and I will have to invite them as my allies again

i just checked the boxes and they were deleted completely. i guess i have to go send my requests again.